When my mother-in-law handed me an envelope at our anniversary party, I expected something nice—maybe a card or a little gift. Instead, what I found left me completely speechless. Inside was a bill demanding payment for raising my husband. What I did next was something she didn’t see coming.
I’ve always had a rocky relationship with my mother-in-law, Laura, but this time she took things too far. Laura is the type of person who thinks she knows everything. No matter what the topic is, she has an opinion—even if she has no idea what she’s talking about.
It’s not just her know-it-all attitude that grates on me; she also believes she’s the world’s greatest mother. Laura has two sons, Edward, my husband, and Michael. According to Edward, though, his childhood was far from perfect. He told me stories of how she’d yell at them for the smallest things, making them feel like they weren’t deserving of love. I felt so bad for him when I first heard this.
When Edward and I met in college, he was shy and unsure of himself. Over time, I helped him build his confidence, and we grew closer. I remember vividly the day he shared some of his traumatic childhood memories with me. It was heartbreaking. He told me about how his mom would argue with his dad in front of them and then take her frustrations out on him and his brother.
Despite knowing about his rough upbringing, I never imagined Laura would become such a challenge in our lives after we got married. She’s always been difficult, but what she did a few weeks ago was beyond anything I expected.
On our second wedding anniversary, Edward and I threw a small party at our home. We invited close friends, my parents, Edward’s brother, and, of course, Laura. I spent the whole day preparing food, decorating, and making sure everything was perfect. The evening went smoothly—everyone seemed to be having a great time.
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As the party was winding down, Laura called me into the living room and handed me an envelope. “Just a little something for you,” she said with a smile. “It’s not for my son, just for you.”
After she left, I sat down with Edward and told him about the “gift” from his mom. I opened the envelope expecting maybe a small amount of money or a thoughtful card. Instead, I pulled out a bill, listing all the expenses Laura claimed she had incurred while raising Edward—diapers, school supplies, even emotional support, which she valued at $10,000. The total was $50,000. And there was a little note at the end that said, “Since you’re enjoying the benefits, you should help cover the costs.”
I was furious. When Edward saw my face, he asked what was wrong. I handed him the bill, expecting him to be as angry as I was, but he just laughed. “Mom can’t be serious,” he said. But I knew better. Laura had always been manipulative, and this was her latest stunt.
I couldn’t just let it go. The next morning, I came up with an idea. I made my own bill for Laura. I itemized everything she had put me through since we got married—listening to her criticize my cooking, smiling through her backhanded compliments, and even the therapy I had to go through because of her constant meddling in our marriage. The total? $50,000. I mailed it to her with a note that said, “Since you enjoyed making me feel horrible, maybe you should help me recover the costs.”
I never expected it to work, but since that day, Laura has been unusually quiet. She hasn’t said a word about the bill, and when I saw her a few days later, she wouldn’t even meet my eyes.
I’m proud I stood up for myself, but more than anything, I feel like I stood up for Edward too. He deserved so much better growing up, and I’m glad I did something for both of us.
Do you think I did the right thing?
This story has been fictionalized for creative purposes.